One of the supreme pleasures of parenting comes from watching your children grow into their own personalities and develop their separate identities. The first few years of their lives, it's all about Mom and Dad. They want you to play with them, read to them, sleep in their bed, share your food, have you answer every question they have in intricate detail. It never ends. The day stretches out before you in one long, endless request to be answered or physical need to be met.
Now that the boys are older, life has become so much more interesting. When The Rationalist isn't accomplishing his tasks in his normally efficient way, I peek into his room and catch him half-dressed, sprawled on the floor, reading a book. My heart swells. When I hear Intuitive Monkey banging around in the kitchen, I walk in to find him moving chairs and climbing on cabinets to get something he needs instead of just relying on someone else to do it for him. It makes me proud.
Today, while I was getting ready for work going back and forth from the living room to the bedroom, I heard the boys talking excitedly and noticed that they had gone outside in the front yard, an unusual thing for them at 6:30 in the morning.
"It's there! It's there!"..The Rationalist shouted.
"What's going on?" I asked.
"We saw Mars!"
"What do you mean?"
"Under the moon...the faint speck is Mars, just like that guy said it would be!"
"What guy?"
"The guy on TV...the one who sits in the stars. He said that on the 26th and 27th if you looked at the moon in the morning you would be able to see Mars just below it!"
They took me outside and sure enough, the bright moon was high in the sky with a single speck of light just below it.
I looked at the boys and just smiled. They had taken an interest in something that I hadn't even known about and had explored it all on their own, without looking to me to tell them about it or suggest that they look for it.
Thanks Star Gazer Guy!
1 comment:
They are two very cute boys. Their thirst for learning and their amazing capacity for soaking up every detail about any new thing they are exposed to never ceases to amaze me.
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